
And then, it happens. She asks if we are planning on having
children. Because this is
currently one of my favorite subjects to talk about I excitedly replied
“Absolutely.” And because she is my doctor she replied “Let me know before you
get pregnant so I can adjust your medications.” Oh, right. She assumes that I’m
going to be carrying my child.
Then in a split second I have to decide, for the first time,
do I out myself at the doctor’s office? I know I should have. I know I WILL.
But at that moment I was so caught off guard that I simply said “ok.” It felt
icky, and slightly dishonest, but I panicked.
I think that businesses should have some sort of signs on
the door that let people know if it is safe to say
“Actually, my wife is going
to be carrying our baby, so my meds should not be an issue!” In college there
were upside down triangle stickers on doors of professors, staff, and offices
alerting students of places where it was cool to be true to your self. This is
a great program, and I only wish that it could be implemented all over the
world, so I could know in advance how providers and businesses would treat my
little family.
Don't worry, the time will come! It sucks to have that icky feeling but it comes with what life throws at you (speaking from the perspective of someone who has had to decide when to "out" some personal family stuff for the past decade). Keep on a-rockin!
ReplyDelete- Julie